The one question I have been asked time and time again when I tell people about my magazine is "How did you get this idea to start this type of magazine?" Almost all of the time I say "My ex boyfriend and I broke up". Not to confuse in giving him credit, because credit - he deserves none...however it was what happened at that time of my life that gave me this idea of my magazine. When the year 2000 rolled around, I was fifty five pounds lighter, I wasn't working, which gave me free reign to pursue my acting career and my ex-boyfriend took care of everything. And with all that, I was not happy. Almost two months into the year I did something that changed my life forever.
My "error in judgment" changed my thoughts about my life, society, my thoughts on relationships and seriously in search of the pursuit of happiness for myself. A year into my life my life as a single woman, something I have never been in my life once the boys rolled around, I began keeping a blog of my life's happening on an AOL webpage. I made it my place to vent about people that called themsevles my friends, all of my dating experiences and express any type of anger that was going on in the moment.
At that time in my life, I needed to do that. I found that writing about what I was feeling and how much I loathed society and their double standard morals and not connecting with any of the magazines out there that catered to women like me, gave me a unique idea. There was something missing out there for women who thought and felt like me. After all, if I'm feeling a certain way, I was sure that there was someone else who felt the same exact way.
Still friends with my ex-boyfriend I shared my idea with him and he thought it was a good idea (what a miracle that was!). The next step was to come up with a name and that name would not only reflect me but reflect an "untouched or unseen" community that society made to be dark and forbidden when in all reality it was and is the most real world I know.
My magazine is about giving men and women a voice, but mostly for women who enjoyed sex, loved reading about it at its most hardcore and not feel ashamed about having open discussions on what's most truly desired.
As time went on my magazine became a place not only to share stories but to share information or find information they people will never find in a "traditional fashionista" magazine. It's not about finding the most expensive handbag or shoes (even though we as women love our shoes and handbags), this magazine is based on the reality of people, how they choose to live, how they enjoy their sexual fetishes and all in all it's not wrong to feel what you feel, for as long as it within reason and that your partner consents. Because nothing in this world should be done to you without YOUR consent.
The one thing after all these years that I have stayed true to is that you don't have to be a stick figure to represent sexy. Sexy comes in many different forms and shapes and as always I say it is the internal confidence one has that excudes sexy. This magazine isn't about fashion and who looked their best in a Christian Dior gown, it's all about sex and relationships, how to enhance your sex life and for those who are new to Bondage and want to try out with their partners can learn all about it here.
Kink~E Magazine is about us, the every day people who lives their lives as they see fit. I'm proud of my creation, the opportunity to give to a society that doesn't have to hide or be shameful about who they are.
For a long time, well for many years, I have always been a voyuer of sex. My friend and I got into sexual books back in Jr. High School. I remember there was a time we were all in the assistant principal's office (I have no clue, we were not in trouble) and whipped out this book I never finished reading calling "A family Affair". I did the reading and my friend did the sound effects. All of our friends were hypnotized. It was in that moment I realized there was something about the stories of sex that captivated a person's mind. They were allowed to use their imagination of how they viewed the scene of that chapter in the book. Porn movies are great visuals but when you read an erotic story it allows your mind to create your own world of sex and how it would please you...and that's a beautiful thing! ;-)
In this forum, I would like to say what one creates, one will copy. I have had the experience of someone stealing what I work so hard for. Putting up this new and improved site will give the public more of what they seek and will find it here. In that regard, I ask you not support what people call "Kink~E" verbatim to what I have created out of my heart and soul This is KINK~E MAGAZINE! :-) That's right people.
Kink~E Magazine is making history and will continue in many years to come. I want to thank all of you that have stuck by me when I didn't want to do this site anymore and wanted to give up on everything I worked so hard for, it was all of you that helped me keep it going. The commitment and the continued support means so much to me. Thank you to all. I hope you enjoy this site, and hopefully I won't have to go through another revamp...but an extension of other links to come. ;-)
